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  • Better Lives with AIA Vitality: Jacqui's journey - an Allen Carr success story of sobriety

    AIA Vitality NZ - 2 min read

    24 October 2023

    Better Lives with AIA VitalityBetter Lives with AIA Vitality
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    Sober curious? Giving up alcohol can be a struggle, but for many Kiwis it is the catalyst needed to transform their lives.  

    Better Lives with AIA Vitality | Jacqui's Journey - An Allen Carr Success Story of Sobriety

    Alcohol abuse is one of the five modifiable behaviours that lead to five non-communicable diseases responsible for over 90% of deaths in New Zealand. With the consumption of alcohol so entrenched in New Zealand society, recognising unhealthy habits and choosing to be sober can be a hard path to commit to - but one that can both change, and save, lives.  

    We spoke with Jacqui Lowe to learn about her transformative journey from heavy drinking to sobriety, using AIA Vitality partner Allen Carr’s Easy Way to Quit Drinking programme, free for AIA Vitality members. 

    What has sober life been like for you so far?  

    It’s been surprisingly easy. I stopped drinking a week before the Easyway seminar because I wanted to give myself confidence going into the seminar. 

    Giving myself a date where I wasn’t allowed to drink anymore proved beneficial for me, and I purposefully set that date a few months in advance. Last October I decided that I was going to stop drinking after the festive season, and that gave me the opportunity to visualise myself as a non-drinker in the new year. I had also completed Dry July the year before, so I was prepared, and I enjoyed that month of no drinking. 

    Horton McCormick was the seminar facilitator for my programme, and everything he said made so much sense. I was also ready to listen, so I think that helped, and a lot of what he was saying really resonated with what I was already thinking. The six-hour seminar initially sounded daunting, but the day flew by. It proved to be immensely valuable to me.

    Was there a turning point in your life that made you want to quit drinking alcohol or was it just about getting healthier?

    It was more of an amalgamation of a whole lot of things. I’ve always been a big drinker, like binge drinking where a bottle of wine was never enough. The feeling of waking up in the morning and not remembering what had happened or asking my partner if I ate dinner - that was all too common for me. The anxiety that I was waking up with in the morning was the clincher. I hated that feeling, and it got to a point where I worked out that I didn’t want that anymore.  

    I also have teenage boys and I didn’t want them to see their mum in that situation. There were also health reasons. I like being healthy, eating well and exercising, and the booze was against that whole ideology. 

    Looking back now it seems like a no-brainer, but it took time for me to get in the right headspace and to accept that I didn’t want alcohol in my life. For me, it's been a constant problem since I had my first alcoholic drink at the age of 13. 

    Were you worried about potential social isolation from friends, a concern often shared by many non-drinkers?

    I had concerns because all my friends drink apart from one. Not only that, but everyone also knows me as a drinker. But funnily enough, as time goes on, I think the people around me think about me being sober more than I do.

    One example is a group of us going to a rugby test match, it was the All Blacks vs Wallabies playing in the Bledisloe Cup in August. A friend of mine had never been to a test match before and asked if I had. I said I’d been a few times and he responded by saying “this will be the first time you’re going sober though.” I hadn’t even considered that, but obviously he had been thinking about it.

    A lot of my friends also don’t expect my sobriety to be a forever thing. They say things like “if you’re still not drinking by then, you’ll be able to drive us” or “we’re celebrating so you’ll need to have a glass of bubbles.” It’s interesting because when you quit smoking, people congratulate you, yet when you stop drinking, people question it as they assume you feel like you’re missing out. Whereas I feel like they are missing out.  

    Alcohol is such a problem, especially in New Zealand. When I was young, it felt like it was expected that you go out and socialise, and you wouldn’t have a good time without a belly full of booze.

    How did you hear about Allen Carr's Easyway method? 

    It was purely by chance as I’m an active member of the AIA Vitality programme, and I love looking through the available benefits. I was having a look one day and saw the Easyway programme was one of the benefits, and being complementary, I thought it was a no-brainer for me to give it a go.  

    It all seemed to line up for me. I guess I was in the right headspace having already made the decision to quit drinking in the new year, so when the Easyway programme popped up, I thought why not? Having the ability to do these programmes through AIA Vitality is absolutely life changing.

    How has quitting drinking positively impacted your life?

    I think some people have this assumption that you’ve got to be labelled as an ‘alcoholic’ or ‘problem drinker’ to benefit from this programme. The reality is, it's for anybody who drinks any amount of alcohol. But I think you also need to be in the right headspace so you’re open to what’s being said. 

    I think the programme is beneficial for anyone who’s realising that they don’t need alcohol, and it’s not something that adds positivity to their life. I think a lot of people reading this will think, ‘of course there’s benefits to drinking’, but until you have sat through this seminar, you won’t realise that there are zero benefits. It’s a pointless habit and life is a million times better without it.

    How has AIA Vitality helped you in other areas of your life?

    It keeps me moving and keeps track of the days I run or bike, or even just hitting my target step count. The app also tells me when I’ve had a good sleep or when I haven’t, and rewards me for healthy behaviour. I think it’s the acknowledgement that you’re doing something good for yourself and getting something in return.

    AIA Vitality New Zealand is the only branch globally that offers members access to the Easyway alcohol seminar, for free. That’s obviously been the biggest thing for me – absolutely life changing.  

    What advice would you give someone thinking about joining AIA Vitality, or attending an Allen Carr Easyway seminar?

    Just do it! You don't know how good it is until you do it. Also don’t be too hard on yourself. Take small steps towards a positive change in your life so you can start thriving. You don’t have to go cold turkey! If you’re not ready, start small and get the ball rolling with Dry July or Sober October (Octsober) if that suits you better. It was participating in Dry July that got the ball rolling for me to realise that I didn’t need alcohol, and it wasn’t adding positively to my life.

    AIA Vitality members can attend an Allen Carr's Easyway To Stop Drinking seminar free of charge (valued at $695) through the AIA Vitality app. Members will also receive 500 AIA Vitality Points. Find out more here.

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    Article by: AIA Vitality Staff Writer

    Staff writers come from a range of backgrounds including health, wellbeing, music, tech, culture and the arts. They spend their time researching the latest data and trends in the health market to deliver up-to-date information, helping everyday New Zealanders live healthier, longer, better lives. 

     

    Disclaimer: The information in this article is general information only and is not intended as financial, medical, health, nutritional, tax or other advice. It does not take into account any individual’s personal situation or needs. You should consider obtaining professional advice from a financial adviser and/or tax specialist, or medical or health practitioner, in relation to your own circumstances and before acting on this information.


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